What do you do .....

Fair enough..

But people could still be nicer about the way they offer this advice.. Yes give her a kick up the arse but be nice about it..

Lets hope none of your friends ever need turn to you for help with depression because the nasty approach is certainly not how you deal with it. Being a dick for what you appear to be their own good is infact the completely wrong way to treat someone who is very sensitive and has seriously low self esteem. That is such an ignorant approach.

u been up to much tonight Hannah?

I just had a friend over for an hour or two .... taught him a bit about Wicca and tarot cards and watched a dvd. I do my 'normal' act and pretend theres nowt wrong with me when Im around him - hes the psychiatric nurse .... If I were to be screwed up Hannah Id make him feel as though he was at work

What about you?

just got in from work, was a busy night. just gonna chill out for a bit before i go to bed like. might watch a DVD

U talking to me?


Infact since u ask, i would be nice at first, and have been in vaious situations in the past.

But this has just gone on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and . . .

You get me?

On and on like my depression ... more years than I can even remember. Its not a joke and its not something that a 'kick up the ass' will solve.

if i feel down i just ring my mates and go out. my mates always cheer me up.

Do you know how we banned Heather for her own good for a while? Can't we do the same here? In all honesty, talking to a bunch of clubbers who are also strangers about your supposed problems isn't going to help. To be fair to the people on this board, I'm sure most of us were very understanding at first but you've just went on and on and put them in a position where its hard to take anymore. Please just leave for everyone's sake.

fucking hell

SHUT UP WHINING!

Seriously girl reading this drivel is turning all of us in to manic depressives.

NO ONE CARES.

http://www.samaritans.org/index.shtm

I was thinking that.

Hannah, I can totally empathise with you but try not to get hurt by what people say, some people haven't been through stuuf that you might have or find it hard to talk about serious issues. i've dealt with a lot of stuff in my life, my nanna is a manic depressive and it is very difficult. if you ever want a private chat PM me, i know i don't know you but sometimes that can help a bit. I'm going through a really tough time in my life but find it useful to talk to people. I'll listen to stuff you have to say and will try and give a sensible solution to you.

I definately think though that you need to try not to search for an answer in mark. to be happy I find you have to work through things yourself, as hard as it may bbut by doing this you can only truely find happiness with someone else as then you not "taking" from them, you don't need any support but its there if you do.
take one day at a time, try to focus on your dreams and think i want to get there for myself not anyone else and when I do i will be so proud I can do a happy dance and think "i'm the best, I can do anything"

Your attitude is fucking shocking

I do.

We need more people like SoapieTW on this board and less people like you.

You people mustn't have had experience with clincally depressed people.. and I mean people who have suffered badly for years not just little patches here and there.

Having had 2 people in my family suffer from it, one of which was my mother, I am fully aware that this is not something you can approach with a "fuck off" attitude.

I wish some people had a sensitive side to them..

stop being such a fool, i asked a couple of times what was wrong at the start of the thread and got blanked.
its not that we dont care if shes sick, its that we don't want to read about maitland anymore

I didnt purposely blank you, stop being paranoid

Soapie & Chandler

To be fair, all of us give her a chance at first but she just kept going on and on. We can only take so much from an absolute stranger before we can't take anymore, which is why she should leave.

And I have had personsal experience, thats why I think she's got it easy compared to a lot of people. When she's too depressed to even move like I was, then maybe I'll give her the 'awwww' factor. I'm not trying to deny she has problems but writing to a bunch of strangers who do not know her or care about her at all, isnt going to help her in any way.

Thats how I get yes. Ive been there lots of times and the only reason Im not stuck in bed now is because of the medication Im on.

erm im hardly the paranoid one luv