Fat Charver with the bairn

Not at all.

I did worry that she didn't know the harm she could be doing, now I see just doesn't care.

I believe the rule of thumb is, if u have kids you dont do drugs!

Fuck me half of you fuckers must have been dragged up!!

Thankyou!

I'm glad there's a voice of common sense here.

Yes I can. But you jumped in and threw around the accusations before finding out whether she breastfeeds or not! Thats my point. Not every woman does and Gaynor herself has said she stopped when she started going out again.

And even if she was, its not your job to jump in and criticise her.

Im with Jess on this one. I duno about my dad doing drugs once I was born actually though...He probably has possibly when he gets with Tim :chill:

Nobody knows personal circumstances and it seems rude to start telling somebody how to parent their child.

You are all just having your opinions though.

So, we agree that its inappropriate, you just think I should say nothing, so as to not offend anyone, while she carries on caining with a baby.

Fucking great attitude mate.

Head in the sand, and all that.

am at wits end here like!

Ask your doctor of its sensible to do drugs when u have a young child!! or anyone with an ounce of common sense.

Take it everyone was on the boot during the PHSE lessons at school!

Its a message board mate, how much notice do you think she's going to take of you?

Its not sensible to takes drugs at all imo.

Good fun though

I've offered to show her the scientific data, and I can show it to you too if you want.

Why would she not take notice?

Moron.

oh yes...

though not so much these days

fair enough thats a valid enough reason personally my kid would come 1st after clubbing etc 'if i had one' she's still young though

I'm not saying its right to do drugs when you have kids. I fuly intend to stop as and whne kids come along if I haven't before then.

But I think that you can't tell someone to stop doing them and expect them to stop. People make all sorts of assumptions when they don't know the full facts and start judging.

I think ive a got a tollerence to the boot now

You cant have it both ways though!

If your young and enjoy drugs, drink clubbling etc, why not wait to get knocked up??

you cannot do both.

Chill! :chill:

If I wanted to see it, I could go find it myself thanks. You need to get off your high horse because you're opinion is no better than anyone elses and you're just making yourself look like an pedantic arse

tell me about me it- and the more you do makes you feel even shitter

oh to be 19 again

No excuse, imo.

I'm pleased to see you agree about the drugs thing though