Unfaithfullness

Unfaithfullness

have u ever been cheated on?if so how can you tell and how can did you find out... i think my lad is cheatin but i cant be sure we are together constantly but once every couple of weeks he goes on one and just goes to the pub and doesnt answer his fone and then turns up at stupid o'clocks in the mornin.... can anyone help??

He probs needs his own space from time to time

If you're really worried get some spies out to follow him

Follow and spy!

You could ask straight out but he'd deny....so there really is only one way!

i would folllow him but im at home with my son and i dont really know that many people in gateshead as i only lived up here 5 yrs (i think) maybe he does need space but why do blokes not have any warning signals... us lasses when we due for that time of the month everyone knows about it coz of hormones etc but he just goes off the rails without even i slight warning... it propa does my head in

you sound paranoid

id agree he probs just wants his own time if you really are constantly together

well we are when he's not at work (which is always) trust is really hard to rebuild he cheated on last yr wiv some 17 yr old girl he never slept wiv her just heavy petted but even when i had all the facts and truths and confronted him he still denied it, its not what he did its how he did it!!

but that was nearly a yr ago surely i should be able to trust him by now.. i mean we bin 2geva 4 yrs!

leopards, spots... etc

if he went through with it once already then i don't see why he wouldnt do it again..

hire a private detective

hire a hitman


i'll do it for a tenner, private detective stuff for a fiver

i've been cheated on by an ex and to be honest, i wouldnt wish it upon anyone, it's horrible.
i agree with everyone that he needs some time to himself, but i dont know why that would involve staying out til the early hours of the morning when he's got a child at home.
try giving him a bit of space, but on the grounds that you'ze have agreed you're going to have a night apart if you get me? not just galavanting out.
hate to be negative but if he's went astray before, there is the chance he could do it again. and no matter how much evidence you have, they never admit to it:evil: i've been there before

i love that word, galavanting...

i dont know why but this bit just makes me laugh :spangled:

being cheated on is awful though,i am pretty sure i was cheated on but to this day i cant prove it

pul a fukin random, and in the middle of a convo say "was she good" if he gets nervous, or answers yes, you no he's cheatin.
when i got cheated on i just new, she was actin wierd and was with all her friends n they wer ded upset cos the whole night went tits up.
i was like FUCK YOU.
im pissed btw so dont take anything i say as serious adives, even tho it might work

It really didnt bother me at all when I was cheated on, no idea why

regardless of being cheated on, you have the best username i have seen for a while

Word...

Why dont ya get ya dad to "rough him up" a bit?

Make him go to the clinic, if you have been getting tooled off him and u suspect he is dipping it elsewhere god know's what could be going on?

Cheating is shit, totally shit more so when it's done on you - i have been cheated on before so be it when i was alot younger but its still shite.

Chop his dick off then stab him with it. In the face.



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Totally agreed!

At least he didnt bomb, dive or spit!

Just seen "heavey petted" as well...

Where the fuck were they Gossy Baths?

"No petting"

well thank you all for ur advice or comments... but after ignoring his fone for about 2 hours he finally turned up at half 10 last night mortal drunk.. so instead of shoutin and screamin he got the silent treatment (which he hates) and slept with my back to him all night he never got a wink of sleep

but i think i might take u up on the private detective business and if im wrong it make me feel so guilty that i start to trust him again