Do you cut off all contact with your ex when they become your ex?

Do you cut off all contact with your ex when they become your ex?

or can you maintain a friendship?

Lately ive been trying to get in contact with my ex because Ive been thinking about him alot, and i'm blatently being ignored! He's not replying to any of my messages.

Now, if he's got a new number then the person who im getting through to would tell me so i would stop bothering them and wasting my own time but they haven't, so Im guessing it's still his number. So, Im being ignored.

If he's going out with someone else, that's fine by me but why ignore me because of it?, what's he scared of?

When we split, he said he didnt think we could just be friends, but every so often, I get a pissed up fone call out of the blue with him wanting to catch up. I dont go ignoring him but he's doing it to me.

Up to yet, I've only been trying to get through to him by text and have been taking it all on the chin jokily that he's been ignoring me, but if I was to call him, would I be putting myself out and possibly make myself look a prat?

grab the bull by the horns and phone him up.... preferably when you think he might be pissed

hmmm i wouldnt be so sure me like. but if he phones you when hes pissed maybe he just feels awkward talking to you so if you ring him it may just be the encouragement he needs to stop being a bitch and be friends

i say do it too mate
you got nothin to lose

i have only ever kept in contact with one of my ex's.

personally i like to draw a line under relationships, also many of them probably want to chop my balls off.

for me there was only one who i didnt keep in contact with and thats because she's a heartless wench! :evil:

I don't think there's anything worse than being ignored by someone. If you are taking the time to text/ring/see them the least they could do is acknowledge you. It really pisses me off!

too tru!! ive been txtin my ex jus askin how she is since we broke up over a month nd a half ago nd she jus dusnt txt bak, weneva i ring her she jus cnt be arsed 2 talk 2 me, this is afta 11 months nd a holiday which i mostly paid for *MUG*

fukin bitches! lol

my psycho bitch of an ex-girlfriend got in touch with my mam :spangled: last wed (which was my birthday) trying to get in touch with me, saying she'd hear about a job I might be interested in.... yeah right

What should I do??? I'm inclined to get back in touch with her, mainly cos she was a great shag, but the problem is she is a complete psycho and to make matters worse a colleague from work bumped into her a few weeks back and says she's really porked out.

What should I do?? :spangled: :spangled:

My Ex Wendy did that too me too mate she lives Near Manchester took her to Ibiza in the summer back a few weeks she called it a day, now cant even get a peep out of her !!!

Fookin Women they batter ya head I hate ignorance too :evil:

bit random that


Ade's house mate, who we'll call Tina as that was her name, was seeing a bloke who was gonna buy her a new fridge.... I don't know why but he was. Anyway she'd gone off him and was gonna dump him but extended the life of the relationship for a crucial few weeks and was actively shagging him during this time even though she couldn't stand him any more until she got the shiny new fridge then she dumped him.

Does anyone else think this is shallow behaviour or is it just me?? :spangled:

We called her "Fiona 'fucks for fridges' " behind her back after that



Some time later I sort of fell asleep on her settee and burned it with a cigarette which proves that what goes around comes around I reckon

I dont speak to the majority of my exes cos they were really bad relationships. Id cross the street if I saw them walking towards me. I started work at a place in Feb and my ex (the worst one of the lot) worked there and I was gonna leave my job because I couldnt handle the thought of being in the same building as him.

Saw another one from about 3 years ago quite recently and all the feelings of hatred came back as soon as I saw him. We tried to stay friends but he still had feelings and I knew that I had to cut my ties with him if I wanted to put it behind me and move on.

Ive never seen the point in the whole lets stay friends thing cos I tried it and it didnt work. If one person still has feelings it can go horribly wrong for both people involved, in those cases its better not to see them so you can get over it.

If it wasnt serious and didnt end badly then theres no harm speaking to them but I would never go out of my way to maintain a freindship with an ex. Exes are exes for a reason. Its easier to put your past behind you if you stay away from them

I've generally stayed friends with my exes. It can take a while for things to be ok, but it is worth it in the end. I have stayed very close to my most recent ex, as I didn't want to lose my best friend as well as my partner.

The last serious girl that I split up with I was seeing for 2 years, we still talk on the phone sometimes and we get on better than we previously did when we were going out. I feel like I can tell her anything.
She’s a top bird
:angel3:

I prefer it when my x's hate me, I have tried remaining friends several times with several girls and have always ended up in bed with them again. Kinda fucks with my head, so I prefer all or nothing never happens like that though

it depends on the person & how the relationship ended.....i wudn't piss on most of my exes if they were on fire tho tbh....then again i'm going out clubbing with an ex & some mates who i wudn't have met if i'd not been with him in a couple of weeks!!

it depends on the person & how the relationship ended.....i wudn't piss on most of my exes if they were on fire tho tbh....then again i'm going out clubbing with an ex & some mates who i wudn't have met if i'd not been with him in a couple of weeks!!

ruth they are kelly brookes;s tits. id know them anywhere lol

i never see any of my exes, they are such twats!!! im sooooooo glad im older and wiser and with someone who loves me however crazy i am.