I need some advice here.. my sister is only 14..

It gets better and better.....

Sounds like the slapper is going to end up on the dole bleeding us tax payers dry for single mothers benefits.

Tell yer Dad and hopefully he'll knock some sense into her.

On a clubbing message board! We're all either on drugs or have been in the past :spangled:

Pike > Aye spot on

After living with the torment of my littile sister for four years + i could more or less write a book about the size of every shakspeare novel going

She's now in a foster home but its been v.v.bad for me and my mam and the rest of the family.

The Police / Social Services are the worst cos they do fuck all, they took the piss at times and some of them i dunno how they have a fucking job ?!?!

Hope it sorts itself out anyways....

Probs not get her to stop having sex - but I would definitely make sure she was clued up about contraception.

Her boyfriend needs a kicking or a jail sentence, preferably both. And a rabid terrier let loose on his manhood.

Telling your parents without trying to do your best for her first is probably not the best option though, everything would really kick off and she'd probably try to rebel further, but if you can't handle it maybe it is the only option.

So sayeth aunty dodgy.

HE IS GLOWSTICK MAN!

http://www.promisealways.com/forums...did=27109&perpage=15&highlight=&pagenumber=31

omg harper you jump at every opportunity to make yourself look special

Here's a plan for you, since all the 14 year old girls seem to be shagging everyone atm, go and see if you can find one that will give you a seeing to, you sure do need it m8.

I wll give u a fiver for your sisters diary!

i'm ashamed that your a mackem no wonder people think we're all wankers

fucking bully

lol @ gimps asking for pics...

i'm up for a good old fashioned shoe-ing like colin!

Re: I need some advice here.. my sister is only 14..

I luckily havent been in your situation but I have been in a similar one to your sisters.

I first started going out at 16 but back then I was going to raves like the colosseum, judgement day and rezerection etc..

I used to hang around with some right charvas and within that group there were some younger lasses that used to want to 'hang around' with us.

For whatever reason they thought they had life figured out, as did I. We all used to get pissed. Myself and a few other friends quickly moved onto the harder stuff and the girls always wanted to copy.

My problem was that my older brother was the same at my age. Luckily he moved onto going to 'nicer' clubs and dressing smart. I was always a step behind him so it didnt take long for me to do the same.
Then the rest of the group started in their own way to progress into better people.

I now see all of them occaissionally looking respectable although there are still a few stuck in chav mode!

MY ADVICE: Try and spend a bit of time with your sis (if it wont damage your street cred!! Or hers!!!). Maybe when your parents are away again, stay in and have your mates round aswell as hers. Bring a few of your lady friends round. As long as they can refrain from having a stuck up attitude to charva's then they might get along. If so, your sister (& friends) will naturally look up to the older women in the house. It may provoke them into aiming a bit higher and their chavvy boyfriends might not seem as apealing anymore!

You wont get an overnight change but it will be a step in the right direction at least. Plus by bonding with your sister like that she will respect you more so when the time finally comes to have a talk then she might actually listen!!

This is the kind of thing that helped pull me around. I hope it works for your sis too!

Good luck!

p.s. If that doesnt work, give the boyfriend a kicking!!

He was hardly the first one to make a joke about it.

Sheep.

There's not a lot you can do except maybe try and talk to her, def don't tell your parents tho as that will just push her away!

She needs to feel like she can talk to you/look up to you if you want to get anywhere with her, you should know yourself when your a teenager you feel like the world is against you!

If you tell your parents she will just feel she has no where to turn to except her friends and it looks like thats where the problem is stemming from!

It doesn't matter what you say tho at the end of the day she is a teenager and if you tell her not to do somethng then she's gonna go out and do just that!!

Cheers again!

See, posting this on a msg board was a good idea i've recieved advice that I never thought of myself.

I'll try bonding with her more but whether it will make her look up to me/us is another question as like you said the groups vary in age from about 14 up to probably 18, so she already has older people within their group of friends that they probably all look up to. Thanks for taking an interest and giving me your advice though for everyone who gave it, very much appreciated It'll all come in handy when i figure out what to do as things progress.. here goes mission charva control.

Give the Bf a good hiding the dirty nonce!

it is disturbing knowing your sister has a bit of a pedo boyfriend

I've had a few people telling me they want to kick him in and they dont even know who he is. I still have to consider whether kicking him in, which might result in him and my sister breaking up is a good option if she's just going to go out and find another bf straight away. He buys her loads of presents all the time and seems too look after her apart from the time i hear her on the phone telling him 'I can't miss school blah blah'. Maybe enforcing safety is the better option atm.

so subtle